We can’t control how people hurt.
We can’t force compliance, rush processing, or demand obedience.
Many are angry. Underneath that anger is layers + layers of unprocessed trauma, abuse + neglect.
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Codependency
What Codependency teaches vs. what Boundaries teach us
As a mother to (almost) three young girls, I’m beginning to see just how often they are looking to me for the directions + rules on how to live.
What I have realized, through observing them, is that
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Honor
This is the foundation of where my healing began. When I first became a mother, I was forced to look at the deepest, darkest wounds within myself. At the time, I still felt unworthy of my own healing,
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Violations and Boundaries
Just a reminder, it’s not your job to convince others of what you need. I know that voice inside tries to tell you “maybe if I explain it better,” or “maybe if I’m more patient,” or “maybe if I wasn’t
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When sharing becomes dumping…
I share quite often on how important it is for me to express authentic emotion in my home. It’s a huge responsibility as a caregiver to help guide children through what a feeling is, how to identify
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Sisterhood
I envy women who have sisters. I really do. There's something about a woman who has one. You can just tell.
They are more confident. They need less. They understand the female breed better
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