I clung to control and called it “love.” Truth is, I was afraid. And attempting to control people + situations helped me feel safe. It also distracted me. When I was dabbling in other peoples stuff, I was easily able to avoid my own.
I don’t love this way anymore.
I’ve learned that it isn’t love, at all.
Loving others often means trusting them to deal with their own life, and me mine.
We will talk about this in my workshop next week. Tickets are selling fast. Link in bio 🤍