Hi friends, maybe some of you…
- are feeling burdened by keeping the peace.
- fear what others will think if you set a limit.
- are riddled with guilt over caring for yourself.
- worry about disappointing or upsetting someone you love.
I get it. I was once there, too. I had many nights where I lost sleep, tossing and turning with anxious thoughts and worries. I had seasons of suffering with panic attacks, addiction and depression. I wanted so badly to care for and help others, but I was slowly losing myself. I no longer wanted to live this way, but I didn’t know how to stop.
Over the last decade, I have spent time unpacking what God says is true about my role inside my closest relationships. I have learned new patterns of behavior of loving others without losing myself in the process. I started reframing what it means to be loyal as a wife, mother, sister and daughter, and put the dysfunctional cycles to a stop.
Throughout this journey, I learned to take personal responsibility for the part I was playing in defending, justifying, and accepting the unhealthy habits in my relationships. I discovered boundaries, and began loving others in the ways I was actually designed to. I took ownership over writing my legacy, and decided to unsubscribe from doing life as an anxious, depleted, and confused people pleaser.
And guess what? All of what I have discovered is available inside my new book:
Loyal to a Fault: How To Establish New Patterns When Loving Others Has Left You Hurting
Pre-Order “Loyal to a Fault”
How to Establish New Patterns When Loving Others Has Left you Hurting
If you preorder now, you will receive some freebies that are only available for a limited time:
- Sample chapters from Loyal to a Fault
- Printable affirmations that encourage healthy boundaries
- Videos from me featuring practical tips on how to set boundaries this holiday season including healthy boundaries around holiday travel, handling various demands over the holidays with confidence, and tips to navigate those “off limit” topics with family members.
Now I know it may seem like the “new norm” for women to live exhausted, running themselves ragged and crazy, keeping everyone happy and their to do lists DONE. But it doesn’t have to be this way for you. At any moment, you can choose to embark on a new way of living that leaves you feeling safe, confident, and at peace. I have decided to no longer live Loyal to a Fault, and I am inviting you to join me. Let’s choose to live in relationships and in life, the way God designed us to.
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How to Establish New Patterns When Loving Others Has Left you Hurting
