Remember, boundaries exist— even + especially on a holiday.
Showing up for yourself is expensive. It’ll cost you some friendships, it’ll piss off some family, it’ll certainly disrupt the old systems in place. But you are worth it.
Years past maybe you’ve bailed on communicating your needs just to please them, stayed quiet to make them happy when you wish you’d spoken up, or played the “easy going” role because that felt like the safest
option at the time. I get it. I see you. I’ve been there.
This year, it can be different.
You can choose YOU. 🤍