Uproot old beliefs often, especially the ones on how you’ve been taught to give + receive LOVE. Hold them delicately to the light, with curiosity + tenderness and ask “did I choose you? Who do you belong to, anyway? Do I still want you? Need you?”
And then decide.
If the belief still serves you, the person you’re becoming, if it’s aligned with your values + your definition of love + worth + grace + peace… then tuck it back away. It’s welcome here, in this new place of yours.
If not.
Let it go. Rewrite it. Take your time. Claim a more beautiful, true, honest, authentic one.
The choice is always yours. 🤍