It was easier than:
setting a boundary
cutting someone off
sharing my heart
accepting the truth
advocating for my needs
I never understood fully the part I played in some of my worst relationships. I loved being the hero, even though I never saved anyone. I loved being the fixer, even though I never fixed anyone. I loved being the angry, resentful, irritated, confused one… because letting go was too hard. I was willing to abandon myself at all costs.
I was so use to being in pain that I was afraid of life without it. I didn’t want to work to live free of the suffering, so I pushed myself to this threshold whenever I could. It was familiar, safe, it was home.
Today I know my threshold is still high. But I no longer need to reach it to feel alive. ❤️
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