“But they just ignore them!”
“It makes me so angry, it’s like they don’t even care.”
“I put up a boundary, and they walk all over it.”
Here’s the deal, and this won’t sound sweet (but I’m not here to grow a fan base, I’m here to help you reclaim your freedom + peace) so let this hit ya where it needs to to get the job done:
👉🏼They ignore your limits because you started to.
👉🏼They stopped caring about your boundary right after you did.
👉🏼 They walked all over you because you led the way.
I know. It stings. Like, it really really does.
But folks show up for you the way you show up for you.
Remember, setting the wrong boundary is better than setting no boundary. You’re going to EFF up a lot before you get into a groove. It takes messy practice and vulnerability and a ton of work. But you’ll get there.
I love you, friend. I believe in you. Please keep going 🤍