What do I do when someone disrespects my boundary?
This is the most common question I receive… and since many aren’t well versed in boundary work, most people do not get positive reactions to their limit setting. They usually get push back, snarky remarks, hurt feelings, or plain + simple disregard to any boundary at all.
It isn’t easy stepping into your worth, and it is costly.
Truth is, you have a choice: You can either bail on your boundary + yourself (again), or you can make some tough decisions. We don’t like the idea of distancing ourselves from those we love, but sometimes that is the only way. It can cost you your sanity, self respect and safety otherwise, or maybe this time, it can be different. It’s up to you.
Remember, this isn’t about controlling others. This isnt about punishing them or demanding respect or changing how they feel. It is about ensuring that you are able to create your own sense of safety + peace whenever you need to.
I dive into this and more in my upcoming *Boundaries with Family* workshop. Registration opens next week. Those on my texting list will get first dibs on tickets. Sign up through Link in my Instagram bio 🤍
