Being in a rush is a symptom of not feeling safe. Many women don’t consider this, however. Why? Because we live in a society where being busy is rewarded. “Wow, look at all you got done!” Or “I can’t
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Do you need to set a boundary with your parent?
As you mature into adulthood, your boundaries change. You no longer are required to adhere to your parents direction, guidance or input. Many of the women I work with
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Ever wish you just had more resources?
Many of you are living with a spiritual deficit. In an attempt to eradicate this, you may strive to make a spiritual deposit by making a financial, emotional or physical
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Are distractions ever good for me?
The easiest way to distract from fixing your own life, is to try and fix someone else’s.
Distraction has been used for decades as a tool to manage pain. It
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Just wanted to say thank you
This time of year can bring up a lot for many of you, myself included. Perhaps another year has gone by and you feel as though you didn’t get done what you had planned.
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Are you caught in the loop around?
I coined the term “loop around” to reflect that moment just after you communicated a boundary.
It can feel overwhelming. Scary. And boy is it quiet. Cricket
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It’s about attraction, not promotion.
Do you find yourself wanting to “promote” this boundary work? Are you noticing when others are lacking limits, or behaving in codependent ways and you just want them to
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Are your boundaries suffocating you?
If you have been doing boundary work for some time now, you may need to reevaluate.
Many of the women I work with get so excited about setting healthy boundaries, that
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Are you in the messy middle?
There is a space.
It is found in between who you once were and who you are becoming.
It isn’t talked about much. Mainly because we talk about what we no longer want
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Can you inherit codependency?
I have come to believe that codependency is an inherited trait. The women before you too, displayed patterns of codependency. Most recently, I read something by Melody
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