Uproot old beliefs often, especially the ones on how you’ve been taught to give + receive LOVE. Hold them delicately to the light, with curiosity + tenderness and ask “did I choose you? Who do you
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Archives for January 2021
Sometimes the go with the flow and easy going ones are the hurting ones
For a long while I was seen as the one who was easy to get along with. I was very “go with the flow” and non confrontational. I wanted to be liked, be accepted, fit in at any cost- even if that cost
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Detachment doesn’t mean
Detaching with love doesn’t mean you don’t miss them. It doesn’t mean you don’t harbor beautiful memories together. It doesn’t mean you even know where you’re headed. It simply means you’re choosing
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Codependency belief vs result
What we believe we are doing when we express codependent behavior is helping. We are the giver. The do-er. The “make it happen” person. No one else will do it, so I will.
I did a poll a few months
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You are tired because…
Maybe it’s time you quit questioning who you are becoming + instead start examining the places or people who are trying to mold/edit/change you? 🤍
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How I befriend myself…
When I judge others, it’s simply a reflection of my own self ridicule. When I dabble in others problems, pretending I know the answers to their continual suffering, claiming to have victory or
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How I befriend myself…
When I judge others, it’s simply a reflection of my own self ridicule. When I dabble in others problems, pretending I know the answers to their continual suffering, claiming to have victory or
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Signs you may be codependent
I share a lot on boundaries here. However in fall of last year, I felt something was missing. So many of you were asking some deep questions and having major reflections that I felt boundary work just
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Signs you may be codependent
I share a lot on boundaries here. However in fall of last year, I felt something was missing. So many of you were asking some deep questions and having major reflections that I felt boundary work just
Continue Reading